By Chidimma Unaigwe
Everyone wants to be loved by her partner. We try to make our marriages, homes and lives as happy as possible. If you are always together with your partner, you should know, if he or she is in love or serious with you. Your partner might say he loves you, but you aren’t sure if he really does. But the fact that he has never told you that he loves you does not mean that he doesn’t love you. When it comes to men, their actions really do speak louder than words.
There are ways to determine whether or not he feels love towards you. Look at your partner’s actions and listen to his words.
Mr. Ogechukwu Chibike says, “When your partner really loves you, he’ll be interested in you. He will respect your ideas and opinions, even when he doesn’t agree with them.
Miss Chioma Okonkwo says, “Someone who loves you will always pay attention to details about your likes and dislikes, and he will accommodate your needs to the best of his ability and also he’ll try to make sure you’re happy”.
Miss Chiamaka Wokoma says, “A man who really loves you is very protective over you, seeks to make you feel safe and comfortable. A man who adores his wife will never cease to always want to protect her”.
Miss Glory Uzor says, “When your spouse is always there for you in terms of challenges, finances, spirituality, academics and otherwise, he loves you”.
According to Mrs. Bimbo Akinwande, a man truly loves you when he understands you and always patient with you and always loves to see the best in you”.
If your partner wants to keep you all for himself, not share you with his friends and family, he is unlikely to really love you. If he really loves you, he’ll want to include you in all areas of his life.
If he treats you differently around his family and friends, just know that there is something wrong. If he’s really in love with you, he will be proud of you no matter what company you are in. He brags to his friends about how much he appreciates what you do and cherishes your love and how much he adores you.
Someone who loves you will try to do the things you want to do, even if he doesn’t care for them. If all your activities revolve around his interests, this may be a sign that he doesn’t really love you.
He compliments you always on how beautiful you are: he will remind you that he understands how lucky he is to have a wife so endearing and full of beauty.
He admits he is wrong: no one really loves to admit when they are wrong about something, both men and women are guilty of this. But the man who admits he is wrong even if he is not truly and deeply adores you. Not every person will do this.
If your partner loves you he will always be patient to sit and listen to all you have to say. It’s a sign he is putting your thoughts and feelings first and wants to hear you out.
He treats you with respect and values your thoughts and opinions. When a man constantly asks to hear what is going on inside your mind, it’s because he sees you as an equal partner in your marriage.
He sacrifices for you: show him some love in return by respecting his sacrifice.
He also wants to know about your family, how they are doing: a man who truly loves you makes you a priority, no matter the circumstance.
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