Chidimma Unaigwe
Every woman wants her family to be the best family in the world, a family that is peaceful, loving, and easy going; a loving wife is someone who builds her family in the way of the Lord. She builds her home on her knees, seeking invisible strength and wisdom. She is a source of spiritual strength and light in her home. She has peace at all times for her secure foundation is God, first and her husband. Her fervent prayers take her children through daily dangers and problems. When the family finances are limited, a loving wife prays to the Lord Our Provider. The husband and children of a praying wife are always blessed.
In the thinking of Mr. Godwin O okpa, “A loving wife with a noble character is her husband’s crown. This is the secret of most men who love their wives, you must be a loving wife to be loved by your husband” he said.
Mr. Frank Obieawe says, “A loving wife must understand her husband, must be able to discharge her duties diligently and must be very responsible in anything she does”.
Mr. Chiamaka Paul says, “A loving wife submits to her husband because submission is a deep commitment. She must seek the consent of her husband before taking any action. He should be the lord of her life” he said’.
Mr. Tochukwu Okeke says, “A loving wife will treat her husband as her king and show him love and respect”.
Mr. Daniel Orakwelu says, “A loving wife must be prayerful; she should first prioritise her family needs before her own needs and must also be accommodating”.
Mr. Kenechukwu Afam says, “A loving wife doesn’t complain always, she communicates and understands her husband, she talks to him with respect and she never compares him withanotherinsteadshepraisesand adores him”.
Mr Chika Agozie says, “A loving wife doesn’t leave the onus of providing for her family to her husband alone but, rather, supports her husband in any way she can in caring for her family”.
A wife’s submission to her husband is in response to her love and devotion to God first. She submits to the Lord out of a humble and grateful heart, not because she is a slave, but a servant. Likewise, submission in marriage is love, not enslavement. A Godly wife is motivated to submit to her husband, not out of fear, self- interest, or self-protection, but out of love. She should avoid anything that will lead to argument.
A loving wife respects, honors, and admires her husband; if you want to have a peaceful, happy marriage learn to respect and honor your husband. Women are very good at pointing out their husbands’ faults and failures and punishing them for not meeting their needs. Men don’t like women that yell, nag and disrespect. Treat him like your king and eventually, he will begin to treat you like a queen.
A loving wife communicates and understands her husband; God’s way of communicating in marriage is to talk with words of unconditional love
and respect. A loving wife tells her husband how she feels. She does not expect her husband to know but she tells him about her concerns. If she is worried, tired, sad, lonely, angry, hurt, or happy, she looks for the right time to share her feelings with her husband.
A loving wife lets her husband be the head of the home; a loving wife needs to encourage her husband to lead and not take over if she thinks he is not leading well. Her encouragement, support, and faith in him will help him develop as a leader. If a wife respects another leader and depends on him for spiritual advice, her husband may be o ended and jealous.
A loving wife cares about being attractive; Beauty is a factor that fades with time, especially as you grow older a loving wife seeks to be healthy and as attractive to her husband as she can be and even as she grows older. She disciplines her eating and exercises.
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